
Betty asks…
How can I get over the death of cat who died painfully and alone?
My very elderly cat died today, and im having a hard time getting over it. Whats makes me upset the most is that she died at the vets (from a heart attack becuase of the stress of a blood test) and i wasnt there. She died on a cold, hard wooden table with a stranger and not in her owner’s loving arms. It couldnt of been peaceful. What annoys me also is that i didnt take her to the vets when she first started to show syptoms of concern. Maybe if I had been more prompt, she would still be here? The vet said that in the weeks/days leading up to her death she had been in a great deal of pain, and that just makes me even more upset. She died in pain. I dont know how to get over her death, im hysterical. How do I get used to not having her in my daily life? She a family cat so ive known her since I was born.
I was thinking of getting another cat or perhaps a dog to fill the gap. I feel very guilty and frustrated about how she died. Please advise me on what to do and how to get through this
Lesley answers:
I’m so sorry about your loss and how things came out. Since your cat was very elderly, you have no way of knowing that your cat would have survived even if you had gone to the vet sooner. The way she died was a fluke and not your fault. Bad things sometimes just happen. In time, your feelings will be less raw and upset. Please try not to feel guilty. The reason your cat was so elderly is because you took good care of her for so long.
If you feel ready to get a new cat, then do so. But only if you feel ready. And keep in mind this cat will have its own personality and it will be a new relationship and won’t be just like your old cat.

Lizzie asks…
How to get rid of fleas without collateral damage, by my self?
Hi
I have some pigeons in my bathroom ceiling window.
I would get rid of them but I only discovered them once I heard their chick.
Considering I’m not pure evil, I’m stuck until it is grown and decide to leave,
so my question is splited to before & after it leaves.
my question:
How can I get rid of (not the pigeons but) the fleas (that came from the pigeons) without harming the other loose insects, spiders, & lizards (yes really ^^) living in my home ?
I know that pretty much any solution will be only partial and temporary as long the pigeons are still there.
split: any partial solutions ? (to only before or only after they leave)
Note that I’m not just looking for a way to make them stop biting, but rather to get them out of my home,
most preferably without resorting to killing them.
One request: please spare me answers of the,
“there is no such solution” type, or answers that ignores the given limitations, & similar spams.
Please only include responses containing practical solutions that I can try.
Also this is something I have to do by myself,
I can’t call a professional (the reason is long, boring and irrelevant, so I won’t get into that).
Please help, my dog and my parrot are suffering too by these damn micro-vampires.
(I can send my pets to live with my sister for the time a solution is being applied if necessary)
Thx
Lesley answers:
Yes talk to a professional or consult your vet.
-if you have carpets try borax, I’m not sure if this has any effects on your pets.
-set flea traps
-vacuum the area where the fleas are everyday.

David asks…
Is this a big red flag for buying a dog from a person?
So, I am aware that I am buying a mutt but I adore having a cross between a shitzu and a yorkie. I now understand that I should not have called the puppy a SHORKIE but I dont anymore. But is it worth for me to buy this dog for $400 including shots update with vaccinations. Can you please explain what are shots and vaccinations, how many times do I have to get my puppy that (If I do buy it) and how much will it cost. And the person said I would get a puppy package. So it this a red flag or no? and also will the shots vaccinations show if the puppy is HEALTHY or not? oh and also has deworming. Thanks
Lesley answers:
This is why people are giving you hell!!! You don’t care about dogs. You just want a “cute” puppy to show off. What happens when that dog grows up and is not “cute” as before. There are sooo many “hybrid” dogs in shelters that could use a home. Oh and FYI shots and all that junk isn’t expensive. You can get a deworm pill for like $2-5. Shots run about $10. Soo how much are you paying for that dog you could be saving from a shelter??

Laura asks…
how do you get multiplayer on Kane and Lynch Dog Days 2?
We just got a PS3 and we got the game today. My Brother and I want to play with each other at the same time, Is there anyway we can do that instead of playing online?
Lesley answers:
Er, noob, try asking this in the Video & Online section (my expertise), not in the Dogs section.

Michael asks…
How can I help my dog??
For my 13 birthday I got a husky. We have research about dog breeds and they chose a husky puppy. I know that they need really a lot of running etc. I was wit him on daly walks (2-3 times a day) but now I’m 15 and I’m really busy in school, so I can go only once or twice on a walk and not a long on. I want the best for my dog, that doesn’t mean that I will rehome him but I Ned to find something to get him enough walk, running,… Im wondering what of activity can I do with him to make him even more happy, he’s now really happy but is it enough if I go wit him for a bike ride( abut 1000m).What can I do beter?
He’s very friendly and loves I someone pets him, but my parents or if we go to aur Friends don’t allow that I take him with me
Lesley answers:
I dont walk my dog every single day and he’s fine! Happy, Healthy, fit. It’s because I play with him and he runs around. Dogs are easily amused and they will always be happy! If you cant walk with him all the time thats okay you can always try
playing with him in the yard
if you dont have a yard try a dog park
chasing him around the house
buy a dog runner
just have fun
Your really awesome for caring so much about your doggy! Have a fantastic day
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